Thursday, July 30, 2009
Monday, July 20, 2009
----- pill
What is my body?
The obvious answer is that it can be many things- chronology, history, conformism, subversion, doubt, pain, joy, comfort, pleasure, ill, sacred, desirable,ugly - but most of all i feel it is threatening.
Threatening for different people at different points of time. For myself and my own image as " one of the boys", eventually my worried grandmother who didn't think i looked as nice as other girls my age, finally for the rest of the world for now i am a sexualized, untamed, reproductive body capable of wrecking havoc on everything thatmakes up the 'natural'.
So much power in the hands of a 'hysterical' human being the society understands as its own undoing. So grandmothers censure, fathers surveill,mothers blackmail emotinally and mostly everyone also plays each others part. But there are also mechanisms that sit you down, give you cold glass of water and then begin in soft, steady, subdued and menacing tones about how a decision to pleasure your body outside permissible limits is criminal/hallucinatory because outside of them the body IS not supposed to exist. for instance the 'friend of the liberated woman' the I-pill advertisements. first things first- thank heaven there is an emergency contraceptive and that people are being informed about it, that women have slightly more agency over their bodies and they can be less tense about physical intimacy with men, also save themselves from the harassment of a hair raisingly painful medical procedure(either way) and unnecessary societal curiosity.
NONE of the advertisements however talk of anything other than the kind of condemnation a woman can and by extension naturally ought to face in pregnancy outside of marriage. not once is the language of a woman's control on her body and therefore her sexuality foregrounded over images of nervous looking young girls or older women reprimanding irresponsible behaviour in hushed tones.
The fear of the woman is never characterized by that of the body but by that of the conscience. The all encompassing megalomaniacal conscience which assigns responsibilities to everything it coopts. The woman to be the preserver of an order that actively makes her into a fetishized sex cum morals cum 'career' crazed quick mix, the men to partake (along with women) of the delicacy and even the I-pill to march over to its side as not the beneficiary of subversionists but a 'well meaning "let me set you right" whip on the back "never to do it again" gesture from the socio-smiths.
But like my body, the pill too can be many things. Just if the way it is sent out could reclaim the 'I'.
The obvious answer is that it can be many things- chronology, history, conformism, subversion, doubt, pain, joy, comfort, pleasure, ill, sacred, desirable,ugly - but most of all i feel it is threatening.
Threatening for different people at different points of time. For myself and my own image as " one of the boys", eventually my worried grandmother who didn't think i looked as nice as other girls my age, finally for the rest of the world for now i am a sexualized, untamed, reproductive body capable of wrecking havoc on everything thatmakes up the 'natural'.
So much power in the hands of a 'hysterical' human being the society understands as its own undoing. So grandmothers censure, fathers surveill,mothers blackmail emotinally and mostly everyone also plays each others part. But there are also mechanisms that sit you down, give you cold glass of water and then begin in soft, steady, subdued and menacing tones about how a decision to pleasure your body outside permissible limits is criminal/hallucinatory because outside of them the body IS not supposed to exist. for instance the 'friend of the liberated woman' the I-pill advertisements. first things first- thank heaven there is an emergency contraceptive and that people are being informed about it, that women have slightly more agency over their bodies and they can be less tense about physical intimacy with men, also save themselves from the harassment of a hair raisingly painful medical procedure(either way) and unnecessary societal curiosity.
NONE of the advertisements however talk of anything other than the kind of condemnation a woman can and by extension naturally ought to face in pregnancy outside of marriage. not once is the language of a woman's control on her body and therefore her sexuality foregrounded over images of nervous looking young girls or older women reprimanding irresponsible behaviour in hushed tones.
The fear of the woman is never characterized by that of the body but by that of the conscience. The all encompassing megalomaniacal conscience which assigns responsibilities to everything it coopts. The woman to be the preserver of an order that actively makes her into a fetishized sex cum morals cum 'career' crazed quick mix, the men to partake (along with women) of the delicacy and even the I-pill to march over to its side as not the beneficiary of subversionists but a 'well meaning "let me set you right" whip on the back "never to do it again" gesture from the socio-smiths.
But like my body, the pill too can be many things. Just if the way it is sent out could reclaim the 'I'.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Sometimes reading this blog makes me think how the complexity of feeling and the constant need for it, is most simplistic.
I was reading Safdar Hashmi today, talking about his dreams for theatre, for the people. His almost innocent, unflinching belief in hope struck me. It made my easy cynicism uncomfortable. A man beaten to death for performing a play outside a factory. In an interview he says, "when the emergency was declared, many of our friends were arrested we got scared as hell. We thought we were a threat to the Indian State. We exaggerated our own threat and thought we were bound to be arrested and tortured. So we disappeared, We didn't perform anymore..."
He wouldn't have known, the lines would ring as comically prophetic and piercingly satirical one day.
I was born many years after the emergency he refers to was lifted.
He was murdered in public just a few days after my second birthday, leaving me and those born since with the knowledge that the emergency was always in continuum and the response could be either- hope that smells of sweat(as Safdar and those like him would have most days of their lives) or cynicism, the smell of my air conditioned classroom.
I choose the latter too many times, this blog tells me.
I was reading Safdar Hashmi today, talking about his dreams for theatre, for the people. His almost innocent, unflinching belief in hope struck me. It made my easy cynicism uncomfortable. A man beaten to death for performing a play outside a factory. In an interview he says, "when the emergency was declared, many of our friends were arrested we got scared as hell. We thought we were a threat to the Indian State. We exaggerated our own threat and thought we were bound to be arrested and tortured. So we disappeared, We didn't perform anymore..."
He wouldn't have known, the lines would ring as comically prophetic and piercingly satirical one day.
I was born many years after the emergency he refers to was lifted.
He was murdered in public just a few days after my second birthday, leaving me and those born since with the knowledge that the emergency was always in continuum and the response could be either- hope that smells of sweat(as Safdar and those like him would have most days of their lives) or cynicism, the smell of my air conditioned classroom.
I choose the latter too many times, this blog tells me.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Sound Energy
To convert a continuous function of space of time into a discreet function of space and time... a wave, a signal, science, certainty, decipherable
...to break a big story, into smaller ones and choose from that your own...waves too slippery, signals too mixed up, science too poetic, certainty only of being undecipherable.
...to break a big story, into smaller ones and choose from that your own...waves too slippery, signals too mixed up, science too poetic, certainty only of being undecipherable.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Friday, April 3, 2009
Ellipsis
It's one of those days when i have nothing to say, but i must say something because
i've spoken too much.
To the point where all that you speak becomes a distorted drone to your own ears the moment it escapes you. It's happening often these days, i am realizing the senselessness of me.
It's a sick thing being self righteous, its an amazing thing being put into your place by a dream. Illogical play of colourless shadows, vague faces, no plot, no climax. distinct enough to make you scared, even of yourself. It's amazing.
from a film:
To Luciano,
because we are also all that we lose.
i was thinking of all that i am about to lose, want to lose
will it become me at a later time? Will i become that?
...
Come, come, whoever you are.
Wonderer, worshipper, lover of leaving.
It doesn't matter.
Ours is not a caravan of despair.
Come, even if you have broken your vow
a thousand times
Come, yet again, come, come.
- Rumi
i've spoken too much.
To the point where all that you speak becomes a distorted drone to your own ears the moment it escapes you. It's happening often these days, i am realizing the senselessness of me.
It's a sick thing being self righteous, its an amazing thing being put into your place by a dream. Illogical play of colourless shadows, vague faces, no plot, no climax. distinct enough to make you scared, even of yourself. It's amazing.
from a film:
To Luciano,
because we are also all that we lose.
i was thinking of all that i am about to lose, want to lose
will it become me at a later time? Will i become that?
...
Come, come, whoever you are.
Wonderer, worshipper, lover of leaving.
It doesn't matter.
Ours is not a caravan of despair.
Come, even if you have broken your vow
a thousand times
Come, yet again, come, come.
- Rumi
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